I have a new philosophy in life. Applying it has begun to save me a lot of stress. It’s simple in theory. Just Don’t Look This idea came to me in the car. I have four children and one on … Continue reading
While cleaning sewer overflow out of my basement carpet I considered the day ahead.
So many gaps...
Not yet 8am on Saturday morning and the day felt like it’d already been long.
How am I going to fill in the gaps?
My husband lay in bed, recovering from a surgery. He would be at home all day, recovering, resting… regaining his mobility.
Where are the resources to fill all the lack? How do I steward what little I have?
My ears stuffed with earbuds pumping celebration in toward my eardrums, my thoughts… I almost laughed out loud.
There is no way I will make it today!
Searching for answers, to truly be responsible with what little I have to stretch over the yawning gaps in resources for the day… just this day, not even tomorrow yet… searching for some kind of plan; a strategy… something…
“Go, I will cover you,” says the quiet voice in my knowing.
No plan. No detailed direction of how to go. Just, GO. I WILL COVER YOU.
I set my mind to it. One step at a time, I decided. Like walking on water. One foot in front of the other.
I can do this.
Look at the God who’s serving me… SERVING ME! The God who never ceases to provide, to amaze, to extend grace… He is covering me today. My job, according to Him, is to go and receive His provision in each step. To receive!
My job as wife, mommy, every other role I will play today… my job description in all of these is to move into receiving.
To discover what it means to live in grace – to see my gaping areas of lacking filled to overflowing with His grace covering me, providing. Me, my husband, my children… those who will touch our lives today. His overflow will increase in me, will increase me.
I don’t see it. I don’t see how my circumstances are possibly going to work today.
But I see God, who is more than able, at work for me.
And I receive.
We recently had an incredible surprise… We are unexpectedly expecting baby #5! Ironically, we discovered this precious little miracle within days of scheduling the appointment that makes adding to our family impossible. Paradoxically, we’d been grieving the end of our … Continue reading
The school year has kicked off with enthusiasm and hope. Actually, we are in our second month of school, being the homeschooling family that we are… Ambitious? Maybe. However, we sat the kids down and explained a basic principle.
~Regardless of when we start, the same amount of work has to be done. We can start early and finish early, start on time and finish on time, or start late and work later into next summer. ~
They chose to get an early start!
The school system we use is 24 weeks long. We use a classical curriculum and once a week we meet with a large group of students, breaking into age appropriate classes. We also meet with a smaller group of friends – other moms and their kids going through the same system. This is the first year we are doing this, and it’s been wonderful! The best part is we came up with a point system that challenges each of our kiddos to raise the bar in family life. The kids spend 7 days earning points for specific goals and each time we meet they bring their accumulated points to add to the group’s goal of having a party.
We gave them fun names:
With descriptions we all agreed on, and each of us tweaked for our specific family dynamics:
They each get chores to check off daily. Bigger chores for big kids, little chores for littler kids:
And chores are explained and posted so there isn’t any misunderstanding:
Which makes the side of our fridge into our points station:
So far it’s been a really good start to the year. I should add that my older two are in a challenge program working toward earning a special incentive trip at the end of the year for mastering all their school material. That’s 24 weeks worth of history, english grammar, geography, math, science, latin grammar, US presidents, and a passage of scripture memorized in english and translated in latin! This is on top of writing & presentation assignments, memorizing grammar charts and dissecting sentences…
Have I expressed my mommy-pride loudly enough?!
It has been a handful, I have to admit. I’ve had to become more routine and disciplined than I ever was while we were in a traditional school system. With a kiddo just starting his school journey, two kiddos entering a new phase of their learning and development adventures, and a toddler enjoying life in the mix, a routine has become our life-line. So has our support system – the other mommies and homeschool kids who understand both the sometimes intense pressures, responsibilities and amazing freedoms that come with a homeschooling lifestyle. Gratefully we have both families in our classical system of homeschooling, and families who are pursuing different methods – both are refreshing, adding perspective and creativity I wouldn’t have on my own.
Whatever your schooling adventures are this year, we hope you are having a wonderful start and are full of hope and joy each day, overcoming hardships and enduring through the challenges in order to taste amazing success and victory!
“Saying no to something actually means I am saying yes to something more important.” (KV) When we first got married, my husband and I encountered one of the biggest challenges we have faced in our married life. How to … Continue reading
What standard are you living by? What do you measure yourself against? When you look into the mirror, what do you see? How do you feel? What do you allow to influence your life? Question I am confronted by today. … Continue reading